Saturday 29 December 2012

New year 2012-2013, and January 2013 shout outs (occasions, shout outs)

I know this past year has been harder than words for some of you, and another year you wished things were different.

I wanted you to know how proud we are of each and every one of you!

We would love, for those who are able and willing, to let us know your thoughts on how 2012 was for you, and your plans or hopes for 2013.

Thank you for being a part of our lives during 2012!!

We would also like to send our utmost sympathy to the family and friends of Maria Furniss of Bedford who died from suicide due to M.E.

Lastly, as with every month, We also send huge shout outs to,,,

Anyone who has a birthday this month

Anyone who has any form of anniversary this month

and Much love and Blessing to Anyone who died of M.E. in the month of December or January,, now or past. (and to their families and friends)

If you would like your name to be included in future shout outs for your Birthday, Anniversary or a post in memory of someone who has died from M.E. please either leave your name and date on the comment stream below., or email me (Alison) on contactalisonlouisebell@gmailcom
However if you would rather your name is not made public, let me know and I'll send you a private email when the date occurs.

Best Wishes, Much love and Blessings,

The Tinkerbelle and Hummingbird M.E. Blog x x


Wednesday 19 December 2012

Our Christmas 2012 E-Card to you all (occasions)

Many of us with M.E. are too ill to 'celebrate' on one day, and spread opening gifts or such over days or weeks.

With this in mind, here is our Christmas and Holiday E-Card to you all!

I never feel good with words, and was wondering what to write here.
But was inspired to send instead the message I (Alison/Tink) sent out personally to everyone that I know after many requests to send it on.

"Dear all.
Another Christmas is upon us. Another reason to bestow love+kindnesses to all.
U know the saying 'A dog's not just for Christmas', well that's how i view the spirit of Christmas. That love,+ kindnesses should b abundant all year round.
I can't giv each+every1of u a smile,hug+kiss. But i do send my utmost love+thank yous to u all.
Lastly, may the greatest gift u give this year, b of urself. Happy Christmas! +a grateful year ahead."

I know occasions can be hard for those who are ill or suffering, as they often harbour reflection, of all kinds.

But we truly hope this Christmas or holiday season harbours at least one gentle smile in there somewhere for every single one of you!

Happy Christmas, Happy Holidays, or to those who do not partake in either, a simple wish from us for some Happy days - our dear blogger arme!

Best wishes, Much love and Blessings,

The Tinkerbelle and Hummingbird M.E. Blog x x


Monday 10 December 2012

Happy Hanukkah 2012 (occasions)

Dear all of our Jewish followers.

We wish you a blessed Hanukkah 2012.

We would love to know what you are doing to celebrate.

Best Wishes, So much love, and Blessings

The Tinkerbelle and Hummingbird M.E. Blog x x


Wednesday 5 December 2012

Dental Care with M.E, 5th blog discussion. (personal care with M.E.)


Alison/Tink; Welcome everyone to our Fifth official blog discussion. Thank you for joining us on our journey.

Jodi, would you like to start?

Jodi/hbird; I think friends and family members of M.E. patients wonder what we do all day sometimes.

They guess we must just sit around being bored, watching TV all day and getting more bored and just be dying to go and have a big fun night out for a change.

But being so ill is quite different to how you might expect it to be, as lots of things are.

For one, most of us are too ill to sit. Our hearts can't cope with the extra work it requires. Many of us dream of one day being well enough to have a good sit every day. (I'm definitely one of them!)

Alison/Tink; When people do not understand how the tiniest of things can seem like rocky mountains, it can feel so frustrating, and often like we are being judged and belittled.

For instance, if someone asks me to do something, and I say I'm busy, can I do it in an hour, and they ask what I am doing- I may say cleaning my teeth, or resting. They do not realise they are actions, and actions that take time to recover from! I feel so protective for that, for others to know how resting is an action, how eating a meal is exhausting and painful. How combing your hair, or reading a letter, takes planning, hard work, and recuperation!

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, we need to think about everything we do and nothing is just done by us ‘automatically’ like it was pre-illness. It’s so annoying!

Most of us are too ill to watch TV all day as well, although those who can manage a bit or even a few hours of TV time each day will usually do so and enjoy it.

Having severe M.E. is tedious, monotonous and horrible for sure. But when getting through each minute, hour or day is so difficult and requires you to constantly function so close to your mental and physical limits, there really isn't an issue with boredom. You don't get bored when you're under such intense stress!

Every small task is such an effort with severe M.E. Brushing your teeth, washing and brushing your hair, bathing, toileting, dressing, eating, drinking- everything.

While most of us would love to somehow magically be well enough for a night out with friends, I think most of us would make a different wish, given the choice.

I'd much rather have had my days be less bad, than just have an occasional good day. The urge to lessen the 'hellish quotient' of every day is so much stronger than my urge to just have more fun. I can't even begin to express how bad life with severe M.E. is each day. It's unbearable.

You barely manage all the tasks of daily living each day (or some or most of then anyway), and it takes everything you have. The days seem to start again too soon. Finally you get things done but before you've recovered from that, it's time to do them all again!

Alison/Tink; It is amazing isn't it how quickly time goes overall, yet a moment can feel so very long.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, that’s just it Tink. My years seem to be passing so quickly and yet so many days took an eternity to pass due to extreme pain and even now when I’m a bit improved, the days seem long…as well as too short. It’s partly because only such a small part of the day is useable I suppose. We have so little useable time, time where we can do things, compared to normal.

Every task either takes extra planning, special timing, modification, or has to be done either very fast or very slowly too.

Alison/Tink; Absolutely, which can be so confusing for others!!

Jodi/H bird; Explaining it over and over is not fun or easy, definitely.

Being so physically limited wouldn't be quite so bad if you at least had an uninjured brain, I often think. But having both really makes things difficult.

One task that most of M.E. patients wish they could skip sometimes, or always, is dental care. It's necessary and has to be done at least once a day if at all possible but it takes so much out of you. I'd be okay with it once a week but every day is so hard - and I'm far less ill now than I was, and than many other M.E.ites are.

Some patients use textured finger covers to brush their teeth, and others have electric toothbrushes.

(If you're putting off buying one due to environmental concerns, but know brushing really hurts your arm so you can't do it for very long at all,,, save power another way I say and buy one today!)

Alison/Tink; I too agree with your suggestion Jodi of using electric toothbrushes. I actually own two for when one runs out I can charge the other. Although in general I loathe vibration, I find it much more tolerable than using a manual one where my head is forced side to side where my neck has no strength enough to withstand the brush strokes. I would recommend closing your eyes as the vibrations can cause visual disturbances.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes me too, I loathe the noise and vibration of it sometimes but for me it’s worth it. Recharging is a bit of a hassle as well, as I always forget, I may have to nick your idea there.

Good dental care is extra important in M.E. too. We may be more prone than most to tooth loss, for one thing. Many of us are also unable to visit a dentist, so prevention is key.

Alison/Tink; I did not know that we are at more risk of teeth loss Jodi, thanks so much for pointing that out to us all.

Jodi/Hbird; I wish it wasn’t the case!

We all have different tooth care issues. What is driving me nuts right now is finding the motivation/mental clarity to remember to floss each day and dealing with the timer on my electric toothbrush. If I brush (lying down) for two minutes, the brush pulses - which makes my brain overload and go into a seizure state which feels dreadful, and lasts 15 minutes or so. I hate it so much but can't find a timer-less model anywhere. So I end up brushing my teeth for much shorter periods than I would normally, just to avoid the 'helpful' timer feature.

(I've tried brushing about a minute, then turning it on and off again, but having to remember to do that is almost as bad as dealing with the timer going off. I need so much to be able to switch off mentally when I brush - no thinking or forced attention getters when my head is full of brushing moves, and in 'tooth-brushing daze'!! My next step is to set up a timer or sand timer or something.)

What are your current tooth-care issues Alison?

Alison/Tink; I'm so sorry about that Jodi, that must be so difficult and distressing! Let’s see if I can help you find one.

I firstly would like to precede my issues by saying that I am so fortunate that I am in the position that I can live the sort of life that enables my M.E. to be the way it is. If not, I would have a lot more severe symptoms and be a lot more ill. I am able to live quietly, spend literally 99% of my time alone, and have a father who is my carer to do some jobs for me. This makes the so-called little jobs like brushing teeth somewhat easier, just not simply easy. But I remember vividly when just breathing was the hardest job in the world and I simply could not do hardly anything else. I've previously been in the position of being able to only brush my teeth once a week, and the very odd twice a week was such a luxury!

So much love to everyone who is struggling!

So, one issue for me is that I have had terrible mouth ulcers my whole life. Mouth ulcers are a typical symptom of M.E. Big white ones. Until I started a specific regime, I would always have at least one on the go, but sometimes multiple ones, which as a child was very difficult.

But for the last, maybe 10 years, I have had a lot less, hardly any really in comparison. My regime consists of brushing my teeth once a day with sugar free Sensodyne original (they are stopping production of this and replacing it with Sensodyne Classic apparently) (Also, note; Normally, I avoid chemicals where I can. I used a natural tea-tree toothpaste for 10 or so years, but the pain caused initially by my wisdom tooth made me dread meal times, so I decided to try Sensodyne Original, the only one without sugar or fluoride.

Then at night time, rinsing my mouth with homemade mouthwash that consists of water, rock salt and tea tree oil for as long as I can, and then during the night when I wake and take my meds, I suck a piece of sugar free liquorice. As you may know, sugar, honey or liquorice are the best natural treatments for ulcers. I have a bad sugar allergy so liquorice is my only option of these. I suck it during the night so as to leave the longest time between next drinking or eating which obviously washes the liquorice, or other treatment, away.

Between brushing my teeth, my mouthwash, and liquorice, and eliminating food/drink that I am allergic to, as I said, my ulcers are much more limited. Although I still get torn and frayed skin on my lower lip.

I have been having trouble for the past few years with a wisdom tooth. There is simply not enough room in my mouth for it, so one of my front teeth is being forced out of position, and said tooth is painful. Also my teeth can take forever to come through. My wisdom tooth has been coming through for about 3 years now (moving for 5 years or so) and is still only half uncovered. The skin, gum and cheek around it get swollen, painful, and bits of the gum die layer by layer which I have the job of then ripping off with tweezers. I had a Dentist come to my house, but without an X-Ray to exclude nerve entanglement, he would not remove it. I am too ill to go to a hospital for an X-Ray so am forced to be left to deal with it. He did perform a desensitizing treatment, which I would like to tell of a possible Warning. As I have mentioned in a previous blog discussion, I had a severe relapse in July 2012. I went from having gotten well enough to being mostly house bound (able to walk along my drive way, which is technically part of our house, but as is in open air etc) and completely self sufficient, with being able to be around my father for periods during the day, to suddenly again being predominantly bedridden and a heck of a lot iller. Looking back, the only difference and possible cause, was this dental treatment I had two weeks prior. It was a desensitizing treatment, containing what I was told was a thousand times higher fluoride than usual toothpaste (I use fluoride free toothpaste due to my stomach conditions) and the same desensitizer found in Sensodyne but at a much higher potency. Just mentioning that in case.

Jodi/Hbird; I’m so sorry to hear about your ulcer problem Tink, they are such horrible little things aren’t they? (Rhetorical question!) And about the wisdom tooth troubles as well. They must be really stressful at times. (((((((((((Tink)))))))))))

I have some thoughts about ulcers,

1. SLS has been implicated in exacerbating oral ulceration. (Sodium laurth sulfate.) Some Sensodynes have this in and some don't as far as I can make out...argh, confusing internet LOL.

Some people say their number and frequency of ulcers drops form avoiding SLSs alone. It does also seem to have other nasties in such as parabens (hugely toxic) and Titanium Dioxide which is also to be avoided, so I have read.

2. My ulcers, well, I used to have a lot more of them before starting to take a B complex 100 product a few times a day, plus B12 coenzymated lozenges of 1 mg or so, plus a good extra folate product.

You probably know this already and are taking all this already...but just in case not, low levels of these vits are one of most major causes of ulcers and taking even just the B12 can stop them in many people. I used to get that awful red corners of mouth thing too...before extra B vits, horrible!! B vits can also help them heal faster generally as well I think.

Alison/Tink; Your knowledge always astounds me!

Thank you for that. I did not know this about Sensodyne. I use the original as is their only one without sugar and fluoride. I seem to be fine with it but thank you for pointing it out for our readers!

I self administer Vitamin B12 injections, so important.

But in all, my aforementioned routine of no sugar, my mouthwash, and liquorice, have helped so much.

Although my stupid Gp forcing me to be on a medication containing sugar for over a year because he refuses to answer my correspondence has brought back frayed lips! Doctors are horrible! Just because I can not go down there in person, they think they can ignore me.

I also get blood blisters in my mouth which are common with viruses.

Jodi/Hbird; Also, I’m not at all surprised to hear that a massive dose of something as toxic as fluoride could cause a severe relapse, though I am very saddened to hear it. Avoiding fluoride in water and toothpaste etc. makes an enormous amount of sense to me. (Anyone interested in this topic might like to read the book ‘The Fluoride Deception’ among others.)

Alison/Tink; This makes me so sad! To think my severe relapse that has left me needing more help, was due to avoidable actions.

Jodi/Hbird; Tooth care is very 'A stitch in time saves nine' - just like M.E. itself. For anyone struggling with dental care in a big way I've written a few notes - and we both send you are sincerest commiserations!

1. Try and brush and floss daily. Use a finger brush or electric brush and see if you can do it laying downing

2. Fluoride in toothpaste is unnecessary and just gives your body more work to do in detoxifying it.

3. Just like anti-bacterial soaps, anti-bacterial mouth washes are far more about marketing hype and selling products than good science. Mouth washes containing alcohol, sweeteners, colours, flavours, fluoride or anti-bacterial agents are not a good idea. You can even actually make your own toothpaste or toothpowder based on non-toxic bicarb soda. I started doing this this year and it’s so much nicer than what I was using before, as well as healthier.

4. Instead of killing the good bugs in your mouth with anti-bacterial products, increase their population by using a powdered probiotic product, mixing it with water and swishing it around your mouth before swallowing it.

5. Investigate or read a bit about dental revision if you have mercury fillings or root canals as both can have huge negative health impacts.

6. Avoid sugary drinks and sugary foods that stick to the teeth. Even small amounts can do harm if they are in contact with the teeth for long periods of time. For your teeth, 3 sugary drinks drunk fast is better than 1 drink sipped very slowly! Strictly avoid crappy sugary 'meal replacement' drinks such as Ensure. They can DESTROY your teeth!

7. Wait an hour after eating to brush.

Alison/Tink; Great tips Jodi. I would also recommend Floss sticks instead of floss, easier on your hands, although still not easy.

Next is that I Disinfect my toothbrush every couple of weeks. I would recommend this practice too.

A note for people with sensitive teeth, if you use desensitizer toothpaste, such as Sensodyne, the instructions are not clear. (They want you to use as much as possible to raise their profits, sad but true!) It is not about how often you use it, but how long it has contact with your tooth. So instead of using it several times a day, it is far more useful to dab a bit on your tooth at bedtime and leave it to work overnight.

Lastly, I would also highly recommend using a Tongue scraper (The hard kind not the jelly kind). Most people with M.E. have a diet of mostly soft food. This accumulates on the tongue leaving a covering that does not get removed by the not eaten harder foods. If you can not cope with plastic, try a spoon, works almost as well.

Oh, and if you are buying a particular toothpaste or product hoping it will be good for your gums or throat, be sure it does not have mint in, as mint actually closes the pores in your mouth inhibiting the absorption you were hoping for.

Like yourself Jodi, I personally brush my teeth in bed with a bowl to spit into. Head position can be difficult. Especially if you sit or lay, as your head will most likely not ever be perfectly vertical, and so dribbling is likely. So as well as the spit bowl, having a t-towel or tissues close can be helpful.

Jodi/Hbird; For sure and I like all your tips Tink! I’ve never heard of floss sticks but am going to check them out today…or at least this week!

Alison/Tink; They are actually called by various names depending on each manufacturer. I've seen them called Plaquers, Flossers and such. I will put a few in with your Christmas post sweetie. Just be gentle as they can hurt if you are heavy handed, especially at first.

It's worth noting also, Dental floss and dental tape are usually confused as the same thing, but one is round and thick, the other flat and thin, so less likely to hurt your gums. I think the tape is the latter, though not certain.

Jodi/Hbird; Good nutrition is also vital to healthy teeth. Calcium is only one part of what is needed, we also need magnesium.

Alison/Tink; Especially because the human body can only absorb calcium if they have magnesium too. Therefore, note, do not bother buying any kind of calcium supplements if they do not contain magnesium as it renders the supplement useless and you are wasting your money.

It's also just worth noting here, if you take some specific kinds antacids, you can not take some other medications for at least an hour each side, as it will stop the absorption of said medication. I point out, that it is not all antacids, just relievers like Gaviscon etc. This is because they have magnesium in. Therefore it is wise not to take the aforementioned calcium tablets containing the necessary magnesium in for at least an hour either side of your medication.

Jodi/Hbird; Vitamin D, and vitamin C at adequate levels is important too - and so much more. Just like eating liver is good for your liver, eating bone broth is good for your teeth and bones as well.

It is so important to know that tooth health and mouth health is inextricably linked with your overall nutrition. If you have good nutrition your teeth will be able to resist the damaging effects of bacteria in your mouth. Good nutrition is preventative of tooth problems and can also work to improve them after the damage is done, more than you might think.

It is a bit awkward but after writing my rough text for this blog (which Tink actually amazingly and very kindly TYPED OUT FOR ME!), I wrote a whole piece on preventing and treating dental issues with nutrition after reading some brilliant books on this topic that I learned an enormous amount from. The finished paper is on the Health, Healing & Hummingbirds site and you can read it here if you’d like:


Alison/Tink; Thank you so much for that link Jodi, your medical knowledge is simply astounding!!

Jodi/Hbird; Proper dental care as well as good nutrition is so important but so difficult when you are very ill. Better to have clean teeth but hair that looks like a bird's nest, and a messy house, I guess. Though many of us would do the last two of these anyway!

Alison/Tink; You sweet lady. Typing it up was a pleasure treasure! You did a wonderful job with the first draft, I so appreciated it and I'm sure this will help many.

Yes, It's Such a shame isn't it, that such ill people have to rationalize like this. To have to prioritize one thing over another. To know I can't do so and so if I want to be able to get my dinner out of the fridge to eat.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, it just plain sucks when you have choices to make constantly but all of them aren’t great! You’re constantly choosing the less bad option, sadly.

Wishes for better health and sparkling strong teeth to you all.

Alison/Tink; Hear hear, and to yourself Jodi!

Best Wishes, Much Love and Blessings

Jodi and Alison

Aka The Tinkerbelle and Hummingbird M.E. Blog x x

 
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Dental Care with M.E, 5th blog discussion. (personal care with M.E.)


Alison/Tink; Welcome everyone to our Fifth official blog discussion. Thank you for joining us on our journey.

Jodi, would you like to start?

Jodi/hbird; I think friends and family members of M.E. patients wonder what we do all day sometimes.

They guess we must just sit around being bored, watching TV all day and getting more bored and just be dying to go and have a big fun night out for a change.

But being so ill is quite different to how you might expect it to be, as lots of things are.

For one, most of us are too ill to sit. Our hearts can't cope with the extra work it requires. Many of us dream of one day being well enough to have a good sit every day. (I'm definitely one of them!)

Alison/Tink; When people do not understand how the tiniest of things can seem like rocky mountains, it can feel so frustrating, and often like we are being judged and belittled.

For instance, if someone asks me to do something, and I say I'm busy, can I do it in an hour, and they ask what I am doing- I may say cleaning my teeth, or resting. They do not realise they are actions, and actions that take time to recover from! I feel so protective for that, for others to know how resting is an action, how eating a meal is exhausting and painful. How combing your hair, or reading a letter, takes planning, hard work, and recuperation!

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, we need to think about everything we do and nothing is just done by us ‘automatically’ like it was pre-illness. It’s so annoying!

Most of us are too ill to watch TV all day as well, although those who can manage a bit or even a few hours of TV time each day will usually do so and enjoy it.

Having severe M.E. is tedious, monotonous and horrible for sure. But when getting through each minute, hour or day is so difficult and requires you to constantly function so close to your mental and physical limits, there really isn't an issue with boredom. You don't get bored when you're under such intense stress!

Every small task is such an effort with severe M.E. Brushing your teeth, washing and brushing your hair, bathing, toileting, dressing, eating, drinking- everything.

While most of us would love to somehow magically be well enough for a night out with friends, I think most of us would make a different wish, given the choice.

I'd much rather have had my days be less bad, than just have an occasional good day. The urge to lessen the 'hellish quotient' of every day is so much stronger than my urge to just have more fun. I can't even begin to express how bad life with severe M.E. is each day. It's unbearable.

You barely manage all the tasks of daily living each day (or some or most of then anyway), and it takes everything you have. The days seem to start again too soon. Finally you get things done but before you've recovered from that, it's time to do them all again!

Alison/Tink; It is amazing isn't it how quickly time goes overall, yet a moment can feel so very long.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, that’s just it Tink. My years seem to be passing so quickly and yet so many days took an eternity to pass due to extreme pain and even now when I’m a bit improved, the days seem long…as well as too short. It’s partly because only such a small part of the day is useable I suppose. We have so little useable time, time where we can do things, compared to normal.

Every task either takes extra planning, special timing, modification, or has to be done either very fast or very slowly too.

Alison/Tink; Absolutely, which can be so confusing for others!!

Jodi/H bird; Explaining it over and over is not fun or easy, definitely.

Being so physically limited wouldn't be quite so bad if you at least had an uninjured brain, I often think. But having both really makes things difficult.

One task that most of M.E. patients wish they could skip sometimes, or always, is dental care. It's necessary and has to be done at least once a day if at all possible but it takes so much out of you. I'd be okay with it once a week but every day is so hard - and I'm far less ill now than I was, and than many other M.E.ites are.

Some patients use textured finger covers to brush their teeth, and others have electric toothbrushes.

(If you're putting off buying one due to environmental concerns, but know brushing really hurts your arm so you can't do it for very long at all,,, save power another way I say and buy one today!)

Alison/Tink; I too agree with your suggestion Jodi of using electric toothbrushes. I actually own two for when one runs out I can charge the other. Although in general I loathe vibration, I find it much more tolerable than using a manual one where my head is forced side to side where my neck has no strength enough to withstand the brush strokes. I would recommend closing your eyes as the vibrations can cause visual disturbances.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes me too, I loathe the noise and vibration of it sometimes but for me it’s worth it. Recharging is a bit of a hassle as well, as I always forget, I may have to nick your idea there.

Good dental care is extra important in M.E. too. We may be more prone than most to tooth loss, for one thing. Many of us are also unable to visit a dentist, so prevention is key.

Alison/Tink; I did not know that we are at more risk of teeth loss Jodi, thanks so much for pointing that out to us all.

Jodi/Hbird; I wish it wasn’t the case!

We all have different tooth care issues. What is driving me nuts right now is finding the motivation/mental clarity to remember to floss each day and dealing with the timer on my electric toothbrush. If I brush (lying down) for two minutes, the brush pulses - which makes my brain overload and go into a seizure state which feels dreadful, and lasts 15 minutes or so. I hate it so much but can't find a timer-less model anywhere. So I end up brushing my teeth for much shorter periods than I would normally, just to avoid the 'helpful' timer feature.

(I've tried brushing about a minute, then turning it on and off again, but having to remember to do that is almost as bad as dealing with the timer going off. I need so much to be able to switch off mentally when I brush - no thinking or forced attention getters when my head is full of brushing moves, and in 'tooth-brushing daze'!! My next step is to set up a timer or sand timer or something.)

What are your current tooth-care issues Alison?

Alison/Tink; I'm so sorry about that Jodi, that must be so difficult and distressing! Let’s see if I can help you find one.

I firstly would like to precede my issues by saying that I am so fortunate that I am in the position that I can live the sort of life that enables my M.E. to be the way it is. If not, I would have a lot more severe symptoms and be a lot more ill. I am able to live quietly, spend literally 99% of my time alone, and have a father who is my carer to do some jobs for me. This makes the so-called little jobs like brushing teeth somewhat easier, just not simply easy. But I remember vividly when just breathing was the hardest job in the world and I simply could not do hardly anything else. I've previously been in the position of being able to only brush my teeth once a week, and the very odd twice a week was such a luxury!

So much love to everyone who is struggling!

So, one issue for me is that I have had terrible mouth ulcers my whole life. Mouth ulcers are a typical symptom of M.E. Big white ones. Until I started a specific regime, I would always have at least one on the go, but sometimes multiple ones, which as a child was very difficult.

But for the last, maybe 10 years, I have had a lot less, hardly any really in comparison. My regime consists of brushing my teeth once a day with sugar free Sensodyne original (they are stopping production of this and replacing it with Sensodyne Classic apparently) (Also, note; Normally, I avoid chemicals where I can. I used a natural tea-tree toothpaste for 10 or so years, but the pain caused initially by my wisdom tooth made me dread meal times, so I decided to try Sensodyne Original, the only one without sugar or fluoride.

Then at night time, rinsing my mouth with homemade mouthwash that consists of water, rock salt and tea tree oil for as long as I can, and then during the night when I wake and take my meds, I suck a piece of sugar free liquorice. As you may know, sugar, honey or liquorice are the best natural treatments for ulcers. I have a bad sugar allergy so liquorice is my only option of these. I suck it during the night so as to leave the longest time between next drinking or eating which obviously washes the liquorice, or other treatment, away.

Between brushing my teeth, my mouthwash, and liquorice, and eliminating food/drink that I am allergic to, as I said, my ulcers are much more limited. Although I still get torn and frayed skin on my lower lip.

I have been having trouble for the past few years with a wisdom tooth. There is simply not enough room in my mouth for it, so one of my front teeth is being forced out of position, and said tooth is painful. Also my teeth can take forever to come through. My wisdom tooth has been coming through for about 3 years now (moving for 5 years or so) and is still only half uncovered. The skin, gum and cheek around it get swollen, painful, and bits of the gum die layer by layer which I have the job of then ripping off with tweezers. I had a Dentist come to my house, but without an X-Ray to exclude nerve entanglement, he would not remove it. I am too ill to go to a hospital for an X-Ray so am forced to be left to deal with it. He did perform a desensitizing treatment, which I would like to tell of a possible Warning. As I have mentioned in a previous blog discussion, I had a severe relapse in July 2012. I went from having gotten well enough to being mostly house bound (able to walk along my drive way, which is technically part of our house, but as is in open air etc) and completely self sufficient, with being able to be around my father for periods during the day, to suddenly again being predominantly bedridden and a heck of a lot iller. Looking back, the only difference and possible cause, was this dental treatment I had two weeks prior. It was a desensitizing treatment, containing what I was told was a thousand times higher fluoride than usual toothpaste (I use fluoride free toothpaste due to my stomach conditions) and the same desensitizer found in Sensodyne but at a much higher potency. Just mentioning that in case.

Jodi/Hbird; I’m so sorry to hear about your ulcer problem Tink, they are such horrible little things aren’t they? (Rhetorical question!) And about the wisdom tooth troubles as well. They must be really stressful at times. (((((((((((Tink)))))))))))

I have some thoughts about ulcers,

1. SLS has been implicated in exacerbating oral ulceration. (Sodium laurth sulfate.) Some Sensodynes have this in and some don't as far as I can make out...argh, confusing internet LOL.

Some people say their number and frequency of ulcers drops form avoiding SLSs alone. It does also seem to have other nasties in such as parabens (hugely toxic) and Titanium Dioxide which is also to be avoided, so I have read.

2. My ulcers, well, I used to have a lot more of them before starting to take a B complex 100 product a few times a day, plus B12 coenzymated lozenges of 1 mg or so, plus a good extra folate product.

You probably know this already and are taking all this already...but just in case not, low levels of these vits are one of most major causes of ulcers and taking even just the B12 can stop them in many people. I used to get that awful red corners of mouth thing too...before extra B vits, horrible!! B vits can also help them heal faster generally as well I think.

Alison/Tink; Your knowledge always astounds me!

Thank you for that. I did not know this about Sensodyne. I use the original as is their only one without sugar and fluoride. I seem to be fine with it but thank you for pointing it out for our readers!

I self administer Vitamin B12 injections, so important.

But in all, my aforementioned routine of no sugar, my mouthwash, and liquorice, have helped so much.

Although my stupid Gp forcing me to be on a medication containing sugar for over a year because he refuses to answer my correspondence has brought back frayed lips! Doctors are horrible! Just because I can not go down there in person, they think they can ignore me.

I also get blood blisters in my mouth which are common with viruses.

Jodi/Hbird; Also, I’m not at all surprised to hear that a massive dose of something as toxic as fluoride could cause a severe relapse, though I am very saddened to hear it. Avoiding fluoride in water and toothpaste etc. makes an enormous amount of sense to me. (Anyone interested in this topic might like to read the book ‘The Fluoride Deception’ among others.)

Alison/Tink; This makes me so sad! To think my severe relapse that has left me needing more help, was due to avoidable actions.

Jodi/Hbird; Tooth care is very 'A stitch in time saves nine' - just like M.E. itself. For anyone struggling with dental care in a big way I've written a few notes - and we both send you are sincerest commiserations!

1. Try and brush and floss daily. Use a finger brush or electric brush and see if you can do it laying downing

2. Fluoride in toothpaste is unnecessary and just gives your body more work to do in detoxifying it.

3. Just like anti-bacterial soaps, anti-bacterial mouth washes are far more about marketing hype and selling products than good science. Mouth washes containing alcohol, sweeteners, colours, flavours, fluoride or anti-bacterial agents are not a good idea. You can even actually make your own toothpaste or toothpowder based on non-toxic bicarb soda. I started doing this this year and it’s so much nicer than what I was using before, as well as healthier.

4. Instead of killing the good bugs in your mouth with anti-bacterial products, increase their population by using a powdered probiotic product, mixing it with water and swishing it around your mouth before swallowing it.

5. Investigate or read a bit about dental revision if you have mercury fillings or root canals as both can have huge negative health impacts.

6. Avoid sugary drinks and sugary foods that stick to the teeth. Even small amounts can do harm if they are in contact with the teeth for long periods of time. For your teeth, 3 sugary drinks drunk fast is better than 1 drink sipped very slowly! Strictly avoid crappy sugary 'meal replacement' drinks such as Ensure. They can DESTROY your teeth!

7. Wait an hour after eating to brush.

Alison/Tink; Great tips Jodi. I would also recommend Floss sticks instead of floss, easier on your hands, although still not easy.

Next is that I Disinfect my toothbrush every couple of weeks. I would recommend this practice too.

A note for people with sensitive teeth, if you use desensitizer toothpaste, such as Sensodyne, the instructions are not clear. (They want you to use as much as possible to raise their profits, sad but true!) It is not about how often you use it, but how long it has contact with your tooth. So instead of using it several times a day, it is far more useful to dab a bit on your tooth at bedtime and leave it to work overnight.

Lastly, I would also highly recommend using a Tongue scraper (The hard kind not the jelly kind). Most people with M.E. have a diet of mostly soft food. This accumulates on the tongue leaving a covering that does not get removed by the not eaten harder foods. If you can not cope with plastic, try a spoon, works almost as well.

Oh, and if you are buying a particular toothpaste or product hoping it will be good for your gums or throat, be sure it does not have mint in, as mint actually closes the pores in your mouth inhibiting the absorption you were hoping for.

Like yourself Jodi, I personally brush my teeth in bed with a bowl to spit into. Head position can be difficult. Especially if you sit or lay, as your head will most likely not ever be perfectly vertical, and so dribbling is likely. So as well as the spit bowl, having a t-towel or tissues close can be helpful.

Jodi/Hbird; For sure and I like all your tips Tink! I’ve never heard of floss sticks but am going to check them out today…or at least this week!

Alison/Tink; They are actually called by various names depending on each manufacturer. I've seen them called Plaquers, Flossers and such. I will put a few in with your Christmas post sweetie. Just be gentle as they can hurt if you are heavy handed, especially at first.

It's worth noting also, Dental floss and dental tape are usually confused as the same thing, but one is round and thick, the other flat and thin, so less likely to hurt your gums. I think the tape is the latter, though not certain.

Jodi/Hbird; Good nutrition is also vital to healthy teeth. Calcium is only one part of what is needed, we also need magnesium.

Alison/Tink; Especially because the human body can only absorb calcium if they have magnesium too. Therefore, note, do not bother buying any kind of calcium supplements if they do not contain magnesium as it renders the supplement useless and you are wasting your money.

It's also just worth noting here, if you take some specific kinds antacids, you can not take some other medications for at least an hour each side, as it will stop the absorption of said medication. I point out, that it is not all antacids, just relievers like Gaviscon etc. This is because they have magnesium in. Therefore it is wise not to take the aforementioned calcium tablets containing the necessary magnesium in for at least an hour either side of your medication.

Jodi/Hbird; Vitamin D, and vitamin C at adequate levels is important too - and so much more. Just like eating liver is good for your liver, eating bone broth is good for your teeth and bones as well.

It is so important to know that tooth health and mouth health is inextricably linked with your overall nutrition. If you have good nutrition your teeth will be able to resist the damaging effects of bacteria in your mouth. Good nutrition is preventative of tooth problems and can also work to improve them after the damage is done, more than you might think.

It is a bit awkward but after writing my rough text for this blog (which Tink actually amazingly and very kindly TYPED OUT FOR ME!), I wrote a whole piece on preventing and treating dental issues with nutrition after reading some brilliant books on this topic that I learned an enormous amount from. The finished paper is on the Health, Healing & Hummingbirds site and you can read it here if you’d like:


Alison/Tink; Thank you so much for that link Jodi, your medical knowledge is simply astounding!!

Jodi/Hbird; Proper dental care as well as good nutrition is so important but so difficult when you are very ill. Better to have clean teeth but hair that looks like a bird's nest, and a messy house, I guess. Though many of us would do the last two of these anyway!

Alison/Tink; You sweet lady. Typing it up was a pleasure treasure! You did a wonderful job with the first draft, I so appreciated it and I'm sure this will help many.

Yes, It's Such a shame isn't it, that such ill people have to rationalize like this. To have to prioritize one thing over another. To know I can't do so and so if I want to be able to get my dinner out of the fridge to eat.

Jodi/Hbird; Yes, it just plain sucks when you have choices to make constantly but all of them aren’t great! You’re constantly choosing the less bad option, sadly.

Wishes for better health and sparkling strong teeth to you all.

Alison/Tink; Hear hear, and to yourself Jodi!

Best Wishes, Much Love and Blessings

Jodi and Alison

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Health, Healing & Hummingbirds. (about us and this blog)

I am always so proud and inspired of my Co-Authoress Jodi Bassett. And beyond honoured to work with her here on this blog.

As amazing it is the work she does on her wonderful, accurate and informative Hfme, she has started a New site too!

It's called Health, Healing & Hummingbirds.

Jodi/Hbird writes;
I am so happy to announce the launch a new website this month -Health, Healing & Hummingbirds.
Lately I have been reading as much as I can about health and healing. Some of the information out there is genuinely amazing. So much more impressive and compelling than I had been led to expect. But finding the little nuggets of gold amongst all the huge piles of worthless junk takes time. Time that many ill people just don’t have.

Health, Healing & Hummingbirds (HHH) aims to get a summary of the cutting-edge information on health I’ve learned out to people in the earliest stages of their disease. Where it can do the most good.
HHH is about healing. Finding and treating the causes of disease and giving the body the resources it needs to heal itself –rather than just endlessly chasing and suppressing symptoms.

This is not a website about ‘alternative’ medicine as such, or one which supports all ‘natural’ therapies. Modern drug-based medicine is hugely problematic but the vast majority of what is promoted as 'alternative' medicine (for want of a better term) is also unscientific and unhelpful. I don’t think it makes logical sense to support most ‘mainsteam’ drug-based medical practitioners or most ‘alternative’ practitioners. The important distinction is between medicine which works and medicine which doesn’t, not some artificial line between so-called ‘mainstream’ and ‘alternative’ medicine.

The body has an amazing capacity to heal. Making sure your body has all the materials it needs to run properly is an essential part of any program aimed at reclaiming lost health. Doing otherwise is like asking someone to build you a house and only giving them trailer-loads of doorknobs to do it with. It just can’t be done.

We are brainwashed to always be excited about and focused on the newest and sexiest and most exotic new drugs (and other treatments) to cure us. But most of this is just marketing hype. The good news is that it is the deeply boring and ‘unsexy’ stuff like making sure your body has enough of all the major vitamins and minerals it needs and a low toxic load which really gets the big results! This is great news for anyone that is ill. No matter what disease you have you have far more power to improve your health than you have been led to believe.

Using the best information from experts in their fields, and the most appropriate tools and modern tests available including using many cutting-edge testing and other technologies, to find and treat the causes of disease gives the best outcomes.

HHH provides information on health and healing for the moderately or severely ill –summarised from 100 of the world’s best cutting-edge health books.

Having a trained doctor and nutritional expert to administer testing and help you on your way is ideal and highly recommended but several parts of the program you can safely do yourself, if you are willing to read and learn a little bit. What better time to start than now?

That is what HHH is all about in a nutshell. I hope you find this new website useful!'

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Best Wishes, Much Love and Blessings,
The Tinkerbelle and Hummingbird M.E. Blog x x

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